Cutting Loss Down to Size: Grief Busters

Grief Busters

I can’t pretend to know what makes you laugh or smile or just feel better; you’ll have to figure that out for yourselves. The point is, build a “secret cache” of pleasant things that you can turn to.  Write them down in a notebook, on the refrigerator, on your hand. They can include images, quotes, websites, books, movies, podcasts, TV specials, recipes, memories, activities that transport you for the moment. Only you can create this list. So get going! Here are some of mine. No hating. It is what it is.


Books  

  • Aldington, Richard, ed. The Viking Book of Poetry of the English-Speaking    World. New York: 1941
  • Canfield, Jack., Mark Victor Hansen. Chicken Soup for the Soul. Deerfield Beach: 1993
  • Carlson, Richard. Don't Sweat the Small Stuff...and it's all small stuff. New York: 1997
  • Gilbert, Daniel., Stumbling on Happiness. New York: 2006
  • Hanh, Thich Nhat. Peace is Every Step. New York: 1991
  • Klein, Allen. The Healing Power of Humor. Los Angeles: 1989
  • Rubin, Gretchen. The Happiness Project. New York: 2009  
  • Sedaris, David. When You Are Engulfed in Flames. New York: 2008
  • Weiner, Eric. The Geography of Bliss. New York: 2008

Movies 

  • My Blue Heaven 
  • Saving Arizona 
  • Annie Hall 

Video

 Any of the stand-up specials of...

Chris Rock                                           Louis CK                                            Kevin Hart   

Music

     Sir Duke.     Stevie Wonder       

     Three Little Birds.   Bob Marley

     Don't Worry, Be Happy. Bobby McFerrin   

     Baila, Morena. Zucchero

     One Love.  Bob Marley

     Hit the Road, Jack.  Ray Charles

     What a Wonderful World. Louis Armstrong

     Somewhere Over the Rainbow. Israel Kamakawiwo'ole

     Imagine. John Lennon

     Sitting on the Dock of the Bay. Otis Redding

     Happy.  Pharrell Williams

     Kokomo. The Beach Boys

     I Got the Music in Me. Kiki Dee Band 

     Hot Stuff. Donna Summer 

     Give me Love.  George Harrison 

     Stuck in the Middle with You. Stealer's Wheel

     Fire. I'm so Excited. The Pointer Sisters

     Silly Love Songs. Paul McCartney

     La Bamba. Ritchie Valens

     Pretty Woman. Roy Orbison

     Twist and Shout. The Beatles

          
Images

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Quotes

Kurt Vonnegut


Recipes 

Okay. I admit it. I'm an ethnic stereotype; I'm very food-motivated.  But I don't care who you are-pizza puts a smile on everybody's face. I've eaten deep dish, thin crust, bruschetta, calzone. I've enjoyed pizza in Chicago, pizza in New York, pizza in Rome, and pizza in Naples.  This is probably the best pizza I've ever had (apologies to my Dad and my Nonna.) Pizza is a stress-buster! Try this recipe!        CLICK ON : "HOW TO GRILL PIZZA"         Please post your comments!!!


How To Grill Pizza!